All time worst ever thing to say to someone who's upset or crying: " Well, I don't want to leave you and have you still be upset....". That is the worst thing to say so don't say it. I hate it when people do, it's like saying well, I have something I want to go do now, but validate my non caring-ism by pretending for me that everything is ok, you're not really sad or upset or at least it was for some very non-important reason, and that you're greatful to me for solving your problems and making you a better person.
Yeah, I don't think so. How do you pretend you really care and enjoy someones presence that you wish could just *************, just because they feel that they're a fragile little flower that is the center of the entire universe whose shit don't stink, but people shouldn't sniff you to hard or take you for granted because you'll get into a sniff and tiff and the world will collapse around us because of our own insignificant stupidity. I just don't think that I can do it. Jeeze, christmas is just going to be jolly this year. ho ho F'n ho.